tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2111201553969472787.post7230286205530148681..comments2023-11-19T08:47:16.021+00:00Comments on (Size) Zero Intentions: Polyamory & Lipstick LesbiansFat Piggyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16380965979204846827noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2111201553969472787.post-21847508119937940252012-08-27T23:09:34.051+01:002012-08-27T23:09:34.051+01:00LOL! That show sounds amazing it is definatly goin...LOL! That show sounds amazing it is definatly going on my 'to watch' list! <br /><br />Personally i think you can love more than one person at a time. Just cos you care about someone doesnt mean you care about someone else any less. The only problem is us humans are fallible and tend to be jealous creatures right :P Thats proberly why we tend to stick to just one partner...I am certainly no angel in the relationship department<br /><br />I Cry over my ex sometime still and we havent been together for over 6 months now! AND im seeing someone else! So dont feel bad about crying cos you miss someone <3 just give it time sweetie! <br /><br />I think maybe when you find the right bloke they will give you enough 'love' and you wont need to look to other people maybe? ...Thats what im hoping LOL! fingers crossed. <br /><br />Scars remind you what you survived darling, even if they run deep. Fuck I should write hallmark cards.<br /><br />Lol, sounds like london will be an adventurous trip for you!! XD have fun!!! :) I love london! I only live about 40 mins by train so love to pop up there for weekends sometimes XD <br /><br />Who says you only have to go for men?...its your life live it how you want :)<br /><br />I always think rules are more like guidelines... :P Its fun to challenge them sometimes eh <3<br />xXxFlawed Designhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00133277110910863894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2111201553969472787.post-79285646390036538522012-08-27T17:01:09.813+01:002012-08-27T17:01:09.813+01:00I don't think you're crazy at all. Polyamo...I don't think you're crazy at all. Polyamory is no different than monogamy where it concerns love. I think that it's a beautiful thing, I'm just too possessive and territorial to try it myself. As for the lesbian thing, if you're having these feelings, they're worth looking into. Don't ignore them or suppress them, because that'll only hurt you in the long run. Embrace them and try it out. I've always heard that women are better lovers anyway =]Aydenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17588517497421131572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2111201553969472787.post-8801342929636504282012-08-27T15:28:16.943+01:002012-08-27T15:28:16.943+01:00Don't be sorry for the 'bullshit' as y...Don't be sorry for the 'bullshit' as you put it... it's not bullshit, it's just mind dribblings, and I love them! You should totally go for it. I mean, I'm sure my opinion doesn't mean much, but like, personally, I've been with both boys and girls, and had feelings for both, but I don't think I have to label myself as bisexual, just a person who loves other people.. if you see what I mean. Although a lot of my friends feel the need to put things in boxes so they call me bisexual to make themselves feel more at ease. The way I see it, I could fall in love with anyone, a man or a woman, and it wouldn't really matter to be honest... that's not what love is about anyway, it's not about gender. I say go for it. Gay clubbing in London is so much fun. I advise you to go to Dalston Superstore on the first Thursday of the next month, they have a lesbian night there and it's so much fun, I always manage to pull when I go, haha. Haven't been for a while though. Good luck honey xxxxxGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12795976581732977704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2111201553969472787.post-69803608222058969452012-08-27T10:19:49.316+01:002012-08-27T10:19:49.316+01:00I think honesty is the best policy here. I'm a...I think honesty is the best policy here. I'm a monogamy type person. I accept that not everyone thinks the way I do and I'll be friends with them but only date other monogamists. We're all individuals and I need the commitment. I don't want to share. I respect your free will & you respect mine.<br />Same idea with the gay scene. Anything goes so long as you're honest about your desires! Let it be known that you're Questioning, not necessarily seeking a relationship, just Questioning, and someone will eventually gravitate towards you. I found out there are some women who really enjoy being a girl's first same-sex experience. They seek it out! And being targeted by them can be fun! Not that I'm speaking from experience or anything *whistles innocently*<br /><br />You have nothing to be ashamed of in this post. Honesty is a good thing, even if you're honestly confused! Still honesty. Social discomfort from being honest right away is still soooo much better than breaking someone's heart.Honor Regzighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07265002510802516431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2111201553969472787.post-80022499644011639002012-08-26T16:27:49.772+01:002012-08-26T16:27:49.772+01:00I think that's definitely normal.
I have had s...I think that's definitely normal.<br />I have had strong feelings for multiple people before.<br />I cheated on someone before, and although I really did care about the person I was with, I also loved the person I cheated with. They were different kinds of love though. As a result I broke up with the one I was with, and a while later got my heart broken by the other guy when he cheated on me. Probably some kind of sick karma. But honestly, I know I wouldn't have changed the situation because I loved them both, and I didn't know what else to do. <br /><br />I say that you should live your life however you please. It's ridiculous that humans have to remain with one single person for their entire lives, and honestly it's unrealistic.<br />Do what you want and just live your life. <br />The Lovely Boneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09164299815829450657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2111201553969472787.post-13004946650128014582012-08-26T16:02:03.109+01:002012-08-26T16:02:03.109+01:00I have several things to say about this post:
1. I...I have several things to say about this post:<br />1. I love that show! I also consider myself a polyamourist. I'm more into the sort of polyamoury that involves multiple in one relationship, together, moreso than the kind which involves two main partners, each with their own lovers/partners on the side. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be in love with several people and having them love you back equally. Just because it isn't widely accepted or recognized doesn't mean it's wrong. When done right (that is, with minimal jealousy and complete honesty and trust) polyamoury can be a beautiful thing. <br /><br />2. I just got out of a relationship with my first girlfriend. Like you, before I dated her I'd madeout with girls and always found them attractive, but didn't really know if I could date a woman or if I was gay or if I was bi (because I very much still love men) or what it all meant. I met my ex at a party andwe hit it off. She's 100% lesbian and I was afraid because I was inexperienced with women and knew I still liked men, but she was really understanding and didn't rush or pressure me at all. It's all about just finding a woman who's right for you, if any are. A gay bar is a good place to start! >.<<br /><br />3. I just moved to london a few days ago! Saw that you were coming here, whereabouts the city do you live?<br /><br />hmm this was really long but i hope it helped!<br /><br />-A.C.AstoriaChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12890698931868468680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2111201553969472787.post-17158105922030143972012-08-26T15:05:43.252+01:002012-08-26T15:05:43.252+01:00Don't be sorry love... Hell, it's your blo...Don't be sorry love... Hell, it's your blog. Write whatever you want. We love you and want to hear about YOU, not just your weight loss <3<br />And... As for having a relationship like on the show... I don't really believe in it. I need loyalty, and I'm a jealous freakout so... that wouldn't work for me. But you know... what it really sounds like... is you need friends. So maybe going to a gay bar, but not for sexual stuff, might be good. Just to be intimate with someone emotionally without the sex. It might help. I have no idea.. Just.. if you aren't gay, I don't recommend going gay, and no offense to anyone that is or isn't or who has a cousin... But I think you should do what feels right.<br />Anyway... love you <3<br />-EmmaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2111201553969472787.post-14991147928183722112012-08-26T11:11:00.251+01:002012-08-26T11:11:00.251+01:00Do it and don't be scared. Love is love is lov...Do it and don't be scared. Love is love is love. That's all. <br />I always considered myself a gay woman, then I had a boyfriend that broke my heart, a couple of girl relationships that didn't go anywhere and then... I married a man I'd know FOREVER. But I'm still attracted to women and I love my husband, but I'm also open with him about things.... <br />So what I'm saying is that I fully understand where you are coming from and you're single and free and don't be afraid to grab a little piece of happiness xxxxFinally Perfectionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18432826785499208226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2111201553969472787.post-33960441344746485292012-08-26T08:57:31.757+01:002012-08-26T08:57:31.757+01:00I don't think of myself as attracted to boys o...I don't think of myself as attracted to boys or girls, I'm attracted to the person and that could be a boy or a girl.<br />Members of my family are gay so I think that opened my mind.<br />I haven't had a relationship in a long time, my eating disorder made sure of that.<br /><br />This post was very interesting,<br />I don't think humans are natural monogamists, just look at the divorce rate.<br /><br />I wouldn't rile out a relationship with a girl. From looking at members of my family, it's much more intense than a boy/girl relationship.<br /><br />Enjoy 'dipping your toe' in to the gay scene xRuby Tuesdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15078080281794429051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2111201553969472787.post-56450326002153348492012-08-26T07:24:58.292+01:002012-08-26T07:24:58.292+01:00No, no, don't be sorry for this ^^
I love what...No, no, don't be sorry for this ^^<br />I love what just kinda spills out sometimes from people, it's so interesting.<br />Anywaaays, I've always considered myself confused. All I know is I find some girls attractive and some guys attractive. and I don't know the rest. Though I've been with both guys and girls I'm not any closer to figuring it out. So I'm not of much help here.<br />I don't know about love.. I've never been loved like that. None of the sex I've ever had has meant more than just a lustful night. and I'm personally scared to fall in love, what if I find I like random sex better? I don't know.<br />It's confusing. Everything always is. But only way for you to know is to try, right?<br />Good luck Xoxo~Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17109123665681110953noreply@blogger.com