Something which has really been bugging me for the last age or so, well not really that long in the grander scheme of things. Whatever - so my ex and I - Roy, the douchebag who I will love hopelessly until I die, because I am that sadly drawn to the belief that him and I were made for each other, hopeless teenage love kinda vibe - yeah, for the long time followers, you remember him, for the newer ones, go back to 2012. Yeah... that was a fun year. In fact, it was 2011 - ANYWAY, so Roy and I had sex ALL THE TIME. I loved having sex with him, not because I got an immense amount of personal satisfaction from it, because I'm not one of those girls... er... what I am trying to say is that it is VERY, VERY hard for me to come. Anyway, but I loved it anyway, because I got satisfaction out of the intimacy of it and that he loved it so much - hopeless love anyone? I remember once his brother making a comment that anyone who had sex more than 3 times a week was unhealthy. Roy and I looked at each other and burst out laughing. Because at that stage we were like twice a day, forget three times a week.
(... you know how all the cosmo-type advice says that 3 times a week is healthy?)
Fast forward three years and I couldn't be less interested in sex. David and I rarely do it, because I'm just not interested and when we do, it is a chore. I'm just not interested. I don't really get anything out of it and if I'm like ... *frustrated* then I'll you know... have some private time. I mean, sex with him is okay and all, but I could honestly go without it entirely. We only see each other about once a week at the moment, because he has exams and I'm mental with this workout schedule and all (again, if you want to see the progress and keep up with that find me on instagram: keranasaurus) - so we really only do it once a week. It's starting to bug me though that I'm libidoless, or like... maybe my lady parts are just broken that I don't love it or something. I dunno - am I broken?
Do you guys keep up with the 3 times a week (horny teenagers DO NOT COUNT)?
Love & Strength